I talk with a lot of women in the course of my day and often times I am befuddled by the way they allow themselves to be treated by the men in their lives. (I am not male bashing just making an observation). Most of the women are forced to accept a lifestyle that is not conducive to their well being. This is due to choices that they've made in their lives that make them feel that they can't do any better.

A lot of the women have settled for an existence rather than a meaningful connection with their man. They don't feel that they deserve better so they accept less by tolerating more.
When a woman allows a man to make her feel in such a way that she cease to be whole and full then that emptiness must be filled in some other way. Sometimes that way is not the best way. It can manifest itself in many forms and often unbeknownst to the woman. She's merely existing and waiting for more of the same.

I employ them to be still, listen, look and really accept the reality of what is and let go. Once they can let go of the feeling that engulfs them to put up or shut up then they can move on healthier, stronger and more powerful than ever.

This reality is being shared more than we would like to admit in more relationships than we could count. It is an epidemic that is crushing hearts and souls of women from all walks of life. It's a feeling of being alone and not loved. We all desire to be loved but when it comes with such a high price as our sanity, children, homes and love of God it is time let go and be free.

Women are so strong and yet so emotionally fragile. We don't want to abandon the husband, white picket fence and 2.5 kids life that was promised to make us complete. So we try to make it fit by any means necessary. But again, I say to what cost?